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How to Attract Women
by prabash cooray
If you can do that, you will not only become a much more attractive man to women, you'll also become an overall more charismatic, confident and well-rounded person.
We're going to start with What Single Women HATE. The reason why we're starting with this topic is that at least 95% of men strike out with women in the first 3 minutes of talking to her.
Do NOT do these things.
Many of them will sound familiar to you, but it is time that you learned not to do them.
Mistake #1.
Do NOT buy a girl drinks unless you already have a rapport with her!
Why not? Well, there are a number of reasons. Most nice girls find it embarrassing when someone they have not even talked to walks up to them and offers to pay for a drink. They are also cautious and may even think things like, "Are there drugs in there?" "Why are they doing this?" "What do they want?"
And those girls that do say, "Yes, please," without even asking, "Are you sure?" usually will never become attracted to you, because you have just positioned yourself as another "free drinks guy."
So when do you buy a girl drinks? After all, lots of girls say that it is a nice and gentlemanly thing to do, not to mention it can be attractive if done right.
If you are going to buy a girl drinks, do it after you have developed a rapport with her first. Offer it to her in a way that seems like you were going to the bar anyway to get a drink and just wanted to see if she wants one, too, (i.e., to prolong the enjoyable conversation).
If possible, get her to come to the bar with you. If she does this, you can take this as an indicator of interest (IOI) and, by leading her there, you are actively demonstrating leadership skills - something she will be subconsciously attracted to.
So, to summarize, when you buy a girl drinks straightaway, you are instantly telling a girl that you feel you need to spend money in order to buy her attention. That instantly reduces your chances of her becoming attracted to you.
What you need to do is learn more creative ways of starting conversations. You'll learn some here in this 6-Part MiniCourse, and a lot more in my Premium and Mastery courses.
Mistake #2.
Don't give too many compliments too soon.
Many guys, when they meet a hot girl, make the mistake of giving them too many compliments too soon.
Hot girls get compliments all the time. And you know what? When you give them too many compliments, they think, "Thanks, that's great," they get a quick self-esteem boost, and they lose interest in you.
Even girls that don't receive compliments all the time feel awkward when you give them more than one compliment, and they don't know how to naturally accept them. It can also make them feel self-conscious, leading them to think, "What else is he checking out about me?"
All in all, giving too many compliments lets them know straightaway that you see them as a prize worth pursuing. By doing this too obviously, too early, you are actively demonstrating that you are not a challenge, and this will make her less attracted to you.
If you are going to give a girl a compliment, make it mean something. Make it be the only one for the night. And if she is super hot, she is used to getting compliments about her looks. Why not be different? Comment about something subtle that you notice about her, like how you enjoyed talking to her and how she seems really fun. Try to look beyond her looks, and you'll be the one who is qualifying her, not the other way around
Mistake #3.
Being too predictable in your conversation.
Some predictability in conversation is fine, as eventually you will have to find out her name, what she does, what her likes and dislikes are, and so forth.
But…
You don't want THE ENTIRE conversation to be too predictable. And you DO want to tell stories in your conversations whenever you can.
What is "too predictable"?
Well, attractive women get approach A LOT in their lives, whether it be in a bar or just meeting through friends. And what they are very used to is a conversation that goes something like this:
"Hi, how are you? I'm John, what's your name? … Cool, pleased to meet you. So, what do you do for a living? … Oh really? That's interesting, you must find that very fulfilling (or whatever…)… What do I do? I'm an accountant (or whatever)…."
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