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How To Get Physical With Women Quickly

by Jenna S

Almost every guy in the world wants to get physical quickly with a woman. The problem is…it seems the more obvious we make it, the less a woman wants to get physical.

Almost every guy in the world wants to get physical quickly with a woman. The problem is…it seems the more obvious we make it, the less a woman wants to get physical.

I remember so many times when I would propose the idea of "getting physical" with a woman I met online. The more I talked about it, the less interested she got. Sure, she may have expressed "some" interest in whatever I was talking about. But whatever interest was initially there was long gone by the time I finally pushed to make it happen.

So what's the solution?!

The answer is to just play it COOL. Make it seem as if whatever happens, it's cool with you.

Unfortunately, the mistake that most men make is they're so excited about the prospect of getting physical, getting laid or whatever, they get overzealous and blow it all together.

Don't be the guy to make this mistake!!!

Men and women work differently. Men want instant gratification. Women want gratification on a progressive scale, along with a challenge.

It's okay to put the idea of "getting physical" out there. But don't make it so blatantly obvious that "you want it."

Here's a big big secret about women:

They already KNOW you want to get physical!!

Most men feel compelled to let the woman know that they "want them."

Women aren't stupid. They know.

So as we were saying…

Feel free to put it out there, but at the same time, be a bit of a challenge about it. Women aren't used to that. Turn the tables on them and make it as if THEY'RE the ones that need to impress YOU for a shot at getting physical.

Another way to get physical faster with a woman is to pepper the conversation with CLEVER sexual innuendos. This means knowing when exactly to say something racy that'll get her "juices flowing."
Here's an example if you're out having a meal:

HER: That's a small plate I ordered.

YOU: Yeah, but you know what they say. It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.

In addition, getting physical with a woman requires some "physical touch" on your part.

For example, when you're chatting with a woman at a table, make a point of "grasping" her hand, "brushing" along her arm," or "stroking" her back in a strong, masculine manner when you're trying to emphasize a point. Timing is everything here. Don't just do it randomly. A pro-dater knows exactly when to give his female date "a little physicality" to get things moving.

IF the moment feels right, you could also give her a little slap on the ass. Caution: DON'T JUST TRY THIS FOR THE HELL OF IT or you'll probably find yourself getting pounded in the face. ONLY slap her ass if she's becoming a brat AND you're both engaged in obvious "flirtation."

Speaking of which…flirtation will get you where you want to get with a woman fast. Women love to flirt. So keep things playful and light. And chances are you'll be gettin' into the sheets faster than the old way: getting home fast to apply baby oil on that sucker between your legs.

Here's another question: where can one go to find scores of flirty women ready for a physical challenge? Church? Nope. Online dating sites? Maybe. Adult dating sites? DEFINITELY!!!

Adult personals are all the rage, in fact. Have you checked out sites like AFF, HM, and SexSearch.com? Most provide millions of members seeking sex, along with free sign up and great features like email, IM, and live video chat!

If you haven't already, check one out today. You could be getting laid tonite!