<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Home Highlight: Rachelle Disbennett-Lee, PhD</title><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/authors/rachelle-disbennett-lee-phd</link><description>Latest articles from Home Highlight</description><copyright>Copyright 2012 Home Highlight.</copyright><item><title><![CDATA[Setbacks Are Part Of The Process]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57600</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/setbacks-are-part-of-the-process.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 07:03:16 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[When working toward a goal, you will encounter challenges and obstacles. That is part of the process. Learn from the setback and keep focused on what is most important, achieving your goal.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Leverage What You Don't Have]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57599</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/leverage-what-you-don-t-have.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 07:01:36 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Don't think of what you don't have as a negative. You can leverage it. What you don't have can actually be a strength since it will give you a different perspective.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Failure Gives You A Great Story To Tell]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57598</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/failure-gives-you-a-great-story-to-tell.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 07:00:25 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[mbrace your failures and learn to respect and appreciate them. Your failures, as much and maybe even more than your successes, have brought you to where you are today.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Misery Well Spent]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57597</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/misery-well-spent.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2007 06:58:40 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Although not something to seek out, misery well spent can be a valuable life lesson that can assist in making the rest of your life better.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[It Could Happen]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57282</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/it-could-happen.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 10:56:41 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Life is mysterious and many things can happen, even the most impossible. Instead of thinking in terms of never, it seems more logical to think in terms of "It could happen."]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Create your Perfect Day]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57281</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/create-your-perfect-day.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 10:55:31 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[You create what you want by your thoughts. Thoughts are things. By getting very clear about what you want in your life you will attract it to you.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[I want it and I'll have it]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57280</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/i-want-it-and-i-ll-have-it.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 10:54:32 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[You have to have passion to create success. You have to really want it. You have to believe it is possible for you to have it and you have to be willing to go after it with gusto.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[How to Stay Out of Jail]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight57279</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/how-to-stay-out-of-jail.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 25 Feb 2007 10:53:19 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Although success and money may impair one's abilities to think clearly, there are steps that can be taken to avoid making the types of mistakes that create unpleasant results.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[No One Dies From Disappointment]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight56858</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/no-one-dies-from-disappointment.html</link><pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 01:49:26 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Disappointment is extremely painful. It is important to acknowledge the pain and give yourself some time to recover.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Fearsome Focus]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight56857</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-help/fearsome-focus.html</link><pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 01:44:22 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Focus creates the opportunity to work on what you say is most important. What is most important often gets lost if your focus is spread among many goals and projects.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[What I Learned from Buddy]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight51292</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/what-i-learned-from-buddy.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 10 Sep 2006 02:42:45 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Allowing a new relationship into your life after a loss is challenging. There is always going to be the temptation to compare the past person to the present. Keep in mind that there is more than enough love to go around, and you can open your heart to someone new while still loving the person who is gone.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Nothing Is Ever 'Off The Record']]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight51291</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-help/nothing-is-ever-off-the-record.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 10 Sep 2006 02:40:22 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[People love to gossip and share "in the know" information. Know that whatever you say to another person runs the risk of being repeated. I know this is harsh, but in my experience it is true.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Just Ask]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight51290</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-help/just-ask.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 10 Sep 2006 02:37:23 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[There are many ways that we keep ourselves from not getting what we want. One of the key ways is by not asking. Asking is a risk but it is a risk worth taking. You simply have nothing to lose.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[People Do Business With People They Know, Like, And Trust]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight50850</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/people-do-business-with-people-they-know-like-and-trust.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 23 Jul 2006 03:17:22 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[It takes time, energy and effort to build a network. Through building that network you build relationships with people who know you, trust you and will do business with you.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Burn the Ships]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight50848</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-motivation/burn-the-ships.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 23 Jul 2006 03:12:19 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[It is tempting to retreat to safety and comfort when challenges and difficulties arise. To avoid turning around and abandoning your goals, you must make going forward more compelling then going back.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Start With A Baseline]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight50849</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/start-with-a-baseline.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 23 Jul 2006 03:15:45 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[When you embark on changing anything in your life you have to start from where you are. Until you know where that is it would be difficult to effectively make the change. You have to start with a baseline.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Don't Quash Exuberance]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight49817</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-help/don-t-quash-exuberance.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 7 May 2006 10:14:58 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[When we grow up to be adults we are socialized to believe that exuberance should be contained and managed. Along the way we get the exuberance knocked out of us. Exuberance, however, is not to be quashed, but celebrated and appreciated.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Don't argue - Ask questions]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight49818</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-help/don-t-argue-ask-questions.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 7 May 2006 10:16:56 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[If your goal is to reach a solution and create a win/win outcome, arguing isn't the route to take. Instead the best way to reach a collaborative conclusion is to ask questions.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Make Procrastination Work for You]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight49819</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/self-help/make-procrastination-work-for-you.html</link><pubDate>Sun, 7 May 2006 10:18:00 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Procrastination is the art of doing something else when there are more important things to do. There is a way to make procrastination work for you. Since all of us have this skill to varying degrees of proficiency we might as well put it to use.]]></description></item>
<item><title><![CDATA[Re-Commit]]></title><guid isPermaLink="false">homehighlight49745</guid><link>http://www.homehighlight.org/self-improvement/motivational/re-commit.html</link><pubDate>Wed, 26 Apr 2006 01:03:29 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[When you find yourself slacking a little and not being as enthused about the new change or goal you are working towards, that isn't a sign to quit. It is a sign that it is time to re-commit.]]></description></item>
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