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Call it hope or simply positive thinking but there is no doubt that your success depends a great deal on maintaining a positive state of mind. I know this by experience, before I use to think too much about the negative things in my life. Even if I did not complain constantly, it did affect the decisions I made in life. How? You could be wondering. For starters, I used to see why I could not do this or that? And most of the time I would find that I did not have the money, the skills, the time, blah, blah, blah! It was always something.

An Albanian Proverb states, "When you have given nothing, ask for nothing." This is true, how can you expect someone to give you all their undivided attention when you barely acknowledge their presence? Do not expect for your boss to give you a raise or a promotion if you are unenthusiastic about the job or organization as a whole.



Apply the proverb in to your life and observe how everything in general will change for the better. Do not sit down and expect others to give you everything while you do nothing. You can not move up the career ladder if you don't work to acquire new skills. Do not mistreat or cheat others and expect to get positive reactions in return. It's simple if you have not given anything, why should you get anything?



Then when ever you are feeling down or frustrated ask yourself do you really deserve what you want? What did you put in to it? And even if you worked for it, ask yourself if you did everything it took from your part?

We all have to fulfill so many roles that at times it can be overwhelming. Therefore, it is not unlikely for some to live stressful lives. This is not good because stress affect us entirely. It clouds and slows down our thinking process and puts a lot of weight on our bodies. The results are unclear communication

Many people wonder if leaders are born or made. Those that believe that leaders are born state that you can find leadership traits at a young age, by observing their relationships with other children. An example of this would be a child that the others gravitate to or the one that has the most friends. Although, this is true I believe that leadership can be develop. I believe this because as humans I do not think that anyone is perfect. Some people are smart in school; others seem to be cleverer outside of school (street wise) while, there are those that prefer engaging in creative activities such as arts and crafts etc.